We invite our other "orphan" friends who don't have family living nearby (or who won't be with their family) and just have a traditional feast.

My husband and I worked this out early in our relationship. Thanksgiving is ALWAYS turkey, stuffing (which means something very specific for me, it's my mother's stuffing or nothing!), mashed potatoes, gravy, and pumpkin pie (with COOL WHIP, I know, bite me

). Other things might be added or taken away, like this year I'll also be making a mince meat pie and some cranberry-pineapple relish. One couple is bringing fresh green bean casserole, which is like the stuff of church suppers, only made with real, fresh ingredients instead.

Getting another friend to do the mashed potatoes this year.
I always brine my turkey and everyone loves how it comes out, so juicy, never dried out. The leftovers taste great, too.

I think we'll be playing RockBand this year, but I'm not sure. Might do some board or card games. And my husband has fixed up the Asteroids Deluxe cabinet video game that we got for nothing from Freecycle, so probably there will be asteroids paying the price for their audacity.
